Sometimes you have to leave a relationship You have to give yourself "The Courageous and Self-Respecting Gift of Saying Goodbye." Red flags have popped up and you have tried to ignore them or minimize them. Do you find yourself worrying, obsessing, and trying so hard to work things out? Are you tired of being disappointed? Is your heart bruised and confused? Have you given your best effort and still feel hurt, sad, or frustrated? Do you need the strength to let go? Patricia Gallagher's wisdom states that leaving an unhealthy relationship is "The Gift of Love" that you give to yourself. Trust Patricia to guide you through this difficult time. You need the resolve to say what you mean, and mean what you say, and not stay in a relationship with someone who does not deserve you.