Many people start self-build projects that end in misery. This self-builder's guide is addressed to those of you contemplating to build your own home but feel you need more theoretical knowledge and practical advice. Being a professional construction project manager, my purpose is to help you adopt the mindset of a project manager and guide you through the process step by step, starting with the Preconstruction phase and gradually progress to the Construction phase. It will present techniques and principles of practical construction management and explain terms like WBS, SWOT analysis and SOW. Useful diagrams and templates are provided. Special attention is paid to maintaining a healthy relationship with everyone involved in the project like contractors, various trades, architect, surveyor and not least a partner or family. The fundamentals required to achieve a successful end goal will entail proper planning, where wishes, dreams, needs, limitations and goals are thoroughly discussed and agreed upon before setting a sustainable budget and time schedule. Follow the advice given and your project will be filled with excitement and joy